who is the responsible of our old people attitude

Mostly there are different upper class families who are responsible of their parents.because in high class families they damn care to their parents and when the childrens get married they send their parents to the old age home but in white collar families they respect their parents and always provide them lots of comfirts and if we see that in olden days when people were very myopic living very abstemiius lives they were truly loveable towards elders and youngers.never tried to harsh them and always use to sit with gatherings but now its not happening.our youngers are just have alacriy about their carrier and that is the reason that our young generation is responsible for our old people attitude.